Guides: dress codes, first times, terms
Everything you want to know before your night. Honestly researched, with sources, checked regularly.
KitKat dress code: what actually gets you in
The KitKatClub Berlin dress code, honestly explained: what works, what gets rejected, changing on site, photo rules and door reality. Updated August 2026.
Dress code guide · BerlinInsomnia Berlin: dress code and your first night
The Insomnia Berlin dress code: what the club officially allows, what's banned, plus everything for a first visit. Updated August 2026.
Dress code guide · AmsterdamWasteland dress code: the door is part of the party
The official Wasteland Amsterdam dress code: accepted styles, the doorbitch rule, changing rooms, 21+ and what happens if you're rejected. Updated August 2026.
Dress code guide · Berlin/InternationalTorture Garden dress code: make an effort
The Torture Garden dress code fully explained: the banned list (yes, black jeans too), the head-to-toe standard, changing on site. Updated August 2026.
Newcomer guideYour first sex-positive party: what to actually expect
First sex-positive party? What to expect, what nobody expects from you, consent rules, awareness teams and the best beginner formats in Berlin and Vienna.
Outfit guide · BeginnersYour first fetish outfit for a sex-positive party
A beginner's fetish outfit guide: use what you own, read the dress code, build an affordable look and avoid common buying mistakes.
Material guide · OutfitLatex, leather or PVC: which fetish material suits you?
Latex, leather, PVC and wetlook compared: appearance, movement, heat, care, price and suitability for a first fetish party.
GlossaryThe sex-positive glossary: terms worth knowing at the door
Sex-positive, consent, awareness team, playroom, munch, vibe check: the essential terms of the sex-positive scene, clearly explained.
Solo guide · First timeGoing to a sex-positive party alone: a practical guide
Going to your first sex-positive party alone: choosing an event, planning your arrival, meeting people and keeping your boundaries.
Entry guide · Before the partySex-positive party doors, entry and vibe checks explained
What happens at the door of a sex-positive party: tickets, dress code, vibe checks, rejection, cloakrooms and your first minutes inside.
Format guide · DifferencesSex-positive party, fetish party or swingers club?
Differences between sex-positive parties, fetish parties and swingers clubs: music, dress code, play, audience, access and consent.